I found out today that we will definitely get to meet with Merkeb and Filemon's grandma. They are going to take us to her house with an interpreter. I have so many questions for her. I have so many things to tell her. If you can think of anything specific that you think I should ask, let me know and I will add it to my list. I want to give her a gift, a picture of the kids? definitely money... what else? Think about it and let me know what you think. Thanks for the help.